Comfort Zones are for Wimps!

Comfort Zones are bubbles that are meant to be popped! I mean, my bed is probably my ultimate comfort zone. (Right? Raise your hand if you’re with me? Three cheers for BEDS!) Some days, especially when the rain and drear threaten to chill me to the bone, I just want to stay in the warm comforting embrace of my bed and watch a whole entire BBC series without even getting up to pee, if that were possible. But, alas, that kind of inactivity must be reserved for sick days and hospital stays or maybe a nice cozy mountain retreat. And really, I like to live my life at a rather steady clip and such a life demands that I daily get up and in some way, shape or form break out of my comfort zones.

Nothing kills creativity and growth like firmly ensconcing yourself in a comfort zone of any kind. So I am always pushing myself to try new things, learn from others, grow from my mistakes (or as Bob Ross tenderly refers to them, happy accidents) and press outward against the walls of the seemingly impenetrable bubble of the beloved and simultaneously bemoaned comfort zone. A lot of times we are frightened of what is outside of that bubble simply because we are paralyzed by the potential of failure. That paralysis sometimes disguises itself as safety. 

In photography this could mean something as simple as shooting at a different time of day than you normally do if you are a golden hour addict, for example. Maybe your an introvert running a small business and know you need to do more person to person networking. Pushing against the walls of your comfort zone could mean as small a thing as going to the teller at the bank rather than the ATM! Perhaps you have been in the building phase of your small business for what seems like an eternity and the only thing holding you back from breaking into the next phase is fear of charging what you know you are worth because fear of rejection is the most terrifying idea of them all! Sometimes comfort zones can be our undoing.

Sometimes getting out of your comfort zone could mean setting up studio lighting in your tiny living room and using your family as photographic guinea pigs. Little forays into the different can open up new worlds. You may find a new comfort zone (that you will one day maybe need to break out of!)

They are rather attractive guinea pigs, I must say…

As I began editing these, in a style rather more dramatic than my norm, I felt they had a certain timeless quality to them. A friend said that they reminded her of Yousef Karsh. Quite the compliment, I must admit. Not there yet, I think, but certainly something to aspire to!

Another friend said they had a Norman Rockwell feel to them. This one above actually really struck me that way. Something about his facial expression and the depth of detail.

So much darker and moodier than my comfort zone would normally dictate. But I like it! What about you?

What have you done lately to get out of your comfort zone, whatever it is?

Published by Nan

We are not wanderers. We are sojourners traveling together along a broken path, following the one who goes before us into the suffering and into the ever brightening glory.